Confidentiality

Is it possible that if you go to your manager on your job, and tell him/her that you feel as though a male co-worker groped you as you passed by him, that this information would end up in an email to other co workers as a joke? Or how about when you talk to your pastor about a personal situation he in turn give the information out to people who can do harm to you. This kind of stuff isn’t right is it? and why would someone you put confidence in betray you? Is it because it’s the right thing to do? but isn’t a pastor suppose to keep all things told to him or her in confidence? The manager at your job is supposed to be the person you go to about situations or problems you are having on your job and to think that he or she would misuse the information to defame and humiliate you. Now correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the pastor of your church, suppose to hold all information given to him or her in the highest of confidence? He or she isn’t suppose to disclose this information no matter what.  What does confidentiality mean to these  people? Nothing…….